Difference in Love and Marriage

i just read a note bout love and marriage which i found it very true!!

A student asks a teacher, "What is love?"

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the wheat field and choose the biggest wheat and

come back.

But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the field, go thru first row, he saw one big wheat, but he wonders... may be there is a

bigger one later.

Then he saw another bigger one... But may be there is an even bigger one waiting for him.

Later, when he finished more than half of the wheat field, he start to realize that the wheat is not as big as the

previous one he saw, he know he has missed the biggest one, and he regretted.

So, he ended up went back to the teacher with empty hand.

The teacher told him, "this is love... You keep looking for a better one, but when later you realise, you have

already miss the person..."

"What is marriage then?" the student asked.

The teacher said, "in order to answer your question, go to the corn field and choose the biggest corn and

come back. But the rule is: you can go through them only once and cannot turn back to pick."

The student went to the corn field, this time he is careful not to repeat the previous mistake, when he reach

the middle of the field, he has picked one medium corn that he feel satisfy, and come back to the teacher.

The teacher told him, "This time you bring back a corn. You look for one that is just nice, and you have faith

and believe this is the best one you get... This is marriage."

see... now we can know what we want and what we are in these situation!

yet

i believe not everyone sharing the same situations

so people can just found the true love in the very first sight to their entire life

im kind of jealous people like that

however,

for people who is not the first maybe last

it is good to as you know what you really want and you know how to handle what you want

is kind of experience and life i can said

you can share around next time with your child maybe to your grand child too :)

for those who got hurt,

please do not give up yet

please believe there will be a better one next

always see rainbow after rain -be positive anyway!

for those who still searching

dont to worry

the best is reserve for you!

for myself

i've go thru all those ups and downs

all the better and sweets

hurts and love

i wouldn't hesitate to looking forward for a better one :)

and the one now is trying to be better *i know~~*

all the best

*.*